Filed under: Outdoor Education
To be acceptable in the class, in the company, alive.
in one of the days met BOY is cute of the neighbours from class in ‘ and asked him, what you want to be when there will be big, question quite banal that the adults drive to ask, do not know, answered the BOY.After a few minutes repeated : My dream it to be acceptable in the class.
Acceptable, put synonymous to the leader .
in most of the cases that is quality of homeland , and it really does not change from which background they arrived or their economic situation.
Ticket of the entrance to be acceptable was – athlete, concert, visual structure, self high security, alertness to the environment, low sensitivity, permanent smile and tone of the sound.
the image and the halo that related to the acceptable in my opinion not they changed in the course tens years
In general they them boys that lead in the games of company and in the candidacies of sportsmanship , the girls laomtm revolve according to decree of the fashion. those who lead the same group he in general something that fun to be with him and good athlete,As regards the girl that leads she in general has a structure of pretty body , proud, and highlights him. relationship that is embroidered in the based built group on bid and ask. the boy is acceptable from his viewRecipient of power and social significance, the acceptable girl from viewpoint her leads in the decree of the fashion, and the boys / the that join them create actually group, enjoy from the same the leadership that designate to them security, because the success of the acceptable / was she so called their success. n spite of that exist social competitive pressures inside the group of that are acceptable, outward they demonstrate unity and companies is real.
In an attempt to be really acceptable group with regard to all of them, drive to enclose to her group BOY / the have high sensitivity, that usually he is a good diligent student, and from essence his joining created situation that cancels possibility of lack of respect and estimation to her group Her a group of are acceptable of girls or boys is group quite closed, and what that remaining to the excess of the boys or this is the girls to dream to be acceptable. they in general loners with themselves or join connect That his condition quite identical, but/auditorium inside your note will be ready to do almost everything in an attempt to be part of a group of that are acceptable.
The acceptable building type of differentiation, that expresses in general in the dressed, and it makes no difference with the garment is sloppy or stuns them, tarries and they impress to themselves to wear almost every thing, and additionally and not less important, they building to themselves exclusive slang.And from within that so was created essential difference, that gives a legitimation to the determination of the statuss, that designates in his end of interest, a position of power.
Almost every BOY or Girl dream to be acceptable, and if not then prefer to belong to the group that between hmnodim and the acceptable.And the more that the Children are adolescent they less associate the parents in the interest, because from viewpoint them that is proclamation on personal failure, that bring with her among other things offers of ” the previous generation ” that he from viewpoint them is not relevant for the period theirs,And in the cases of controversies in the additional subject to them candidacy that she do not contribute, and can lead to the unnecessary solutions and not them advisable.
Additional thing that characteristic you that are acceptable they at the girls and they at the boys is the initiative and the bravado, they will be the first that will revolve with each other, boys with boys or with girls and when will meet embrace and kiss and will not be embarrassed,They will edit Parties and mutual trips and by the intermissions sat always together his Yitzhak is vocal sounds, and all this in an attempt that the rotate them they will show, will hear, and want to be part of the same happy group, as she seems outward.
Our majority was already in the similar scenario, easy us to understand that this is very significant stage to our BOY and he has implications on the future, and therefore undesirable to ignore him.
Then what do in an attempt to help to Children is ours to be acceptable, or at least to be sheikhs to the middle group?
Old said very famous that says : If will give to the person of this meat will attest his starvation to the someday, but if will teach him to hunt, he will attest his starvation in the course his life.
To identify a stage they are talented more, to understand that name they have comparative advantage, with regard to that rotate them, because only name they will succeed more. to notice when the BOY initiate and when he mimic. when he initiate to encourage him.
When he mimics a friend or the parents to discuss with him on the interest and to endeavour to understand what motive him.
To avoid to adjust the BOY / the Girl to the them subjects that you dreamt to be or failed in them, but with you are sure and real that this is also their desire.
Will be advised to them and not to manage them, and it makes no difference how old are they.
to expose them to the maximum of subjects in all the fields, also like these that you do not love in particular.
to respect their desire.
to be real with them.
Hair, to give him expression and significance already from very young age, he is from the security min.s. even that they removed them the hero in his time understood the power is hidden in him. therefore )to you( is recommended white long gate, and to build a long gate in particular.
A wisdom of life, one of the prominent things shmapinm you that are acceptable, to this point there are to the parents of decisive significant effect in the design of the BOY in the company. there is not the intention here to the education, but to the wisdom of life.You will exploit the sieve of the way that passed and your rich experience, will cost before them problems of life and dilemmas, will ask them what they think and manage with them dialogues in the interest.Think in particular, you will not wrangle but you will adjust, also if seems you that they will not agree with you, the time do his and if you are genuine it will permeate to them. every BOY or Girl understand that the parents don’t understnd everything,And if you have brings that you do not know in the full security what right and from the not right to do, advisable to thank/admit, will not be embarrassed it will alleviate on them to consult with you the next time.
In the games and in the sport choose in general you that are the most good, and what, it are disagreeable if do not choose the BOY is yours, or choose the same in the end because there is not a choice. already then paste him or her stigma to the much years,, and actually what happens to the them Children, is known clear process in advance, they simply dissociate from the company.
This problem is right also to the them Children geniuss that they are first in the class, it does not give to them points of right in the candidacies. that from outside to the class. the permanent desire of the BOY / the to approach to the acceptable is exploited in general to the bad,Because in his innocence will help to the acceptable, and they from viewpoint them, every time that they truly need him he will be credited to the momentary benevolence, and at the moment that from viewpoint them ended his role they change their skin and act in the form From loathing debases and derisive, and all this in an attempt that there will be him clear and unequivocal, that he doesn’t have place in their the company.
The result, that in the part of the cases was caused damage is not reversible, cshbrob the cases they remain inside themselves, and not them informations you hhorimci there is in this type of personal failure,And if they will tell to the parents exist possibility that their reaction will not be advisable, and likely, and they will constrain to absorb an additional criticism, then what it give to them, more humiliation.
Important to remember and not to forget, outdoor the field, he their house and blockhouse of the acceptable.
And therefore, the image of the BOY / the is built in general, in the rates of the sport, by the intermissions, in the competitions and in the trips.
And therefore,
is recommended to run with the Children already from very young age, to teach them to bounce a right ball, to teach them to kick right in the ball, Part is not little from the parents not quite athletes, and the awareness apropos quite low, and therefore you have to use the exterior help like courses. important to discuss and to consult with the Children which from branches of sport control the same coat, you have to give the mind and the time tarries and the interest not less important from studies.
To teach them to jump from height, because this is one of the most identified effects by the company to the courage or timidity.
To be with them real if they do not bounce good, it do not change how old are they, to say to them ” nice ” but not more than it, and only in the stage that they are good to point out this, because the company much less tolerant, , and sometimes from capacity one word, to mock, in an attempt to hurt their security. the Children is very cities to the current fashion, already from very young age, they chat on the fashion are aware of the brand-names. will not obtain inexpensive solutions,Because you are keys on them life. before every purchase will revolve with them in the stores of the big and manage with them conversation in the height of the eyes , will ask them what pretty and from the fashionable, because here will not be controversies, but crystallization of position and comprehension.
In the stage of the purchase , give to them to choose, will try to be in their head, and insofar as and be asked to express an opinion, expressed your mind and to will fear. additionally, as regards advisable girls always to enclose mature sister, and if not then that base, as regards company, give to them to decide, will rely on balancing of their mind . important not less,To organize together with full with the Children, trips or on the fire with boys of their class, to try hard and not to cede on attendance of the boys of the second sex, every this already from young age.
In summary him of interest,
should appertain to the sport as power, source to the admiration and inspiration, that escort us already from very young age, actually from class a ‘ committee after twentieth age,And if becomes an account, speaking on 15 year at least and it is considerable, millions of people admire athletes, it is right also as regards our BOY, they admire the athletes that in their environment, and in most of the cases of the athletes they actually a group of that are acceptable.
A group of that are acceptable wins to several points of juicy right , that forbidden us to ignore them, it do not end in the military servic, but constitutes an element to the continuation their way and expresses in most of the cases :
In the independence, in the bravado, in the permanent impulse to succeed, they lead and not them lead , rely on the ability and their intuition, in general exited with number of mates before the decisive decision, will not fear to exchange Houses and the workplaces,, will try hard him on concert. and to connect her there will be always great significance in their lives.
Life consist and nationalize candidacies already from very young age, and therefore advisable that you are the wisdom of life will teach of us, because the education they will acquire already by right of themselves.
Artist – miki hirsh